𝓢𝓽𝓸𝓹 𝓵𝓲𝓼𝓽𝓮𝓷𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓽𝓸 𝓸𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻 𝓹𝓮𝓸𝓹𝓵𝓮'𝓼 𝓭𝓻𝓪𝓶𝓪! 🌹

Have you ever had a reading and thought to yourself, this sounds more like my friend rather than me! You might feel ripped off, and that's understandable. However, there's a reason that someone else's reading may come through into your reading.

Let me show you why...

Every person’s energy field is like a magnet, always turning and attracting to itself other people’s energies which includes their problems!

Whilst these may not play out straight away in your life the warnings may come up in your reading. It's not the readers fault that this is happening, but they're only picking up of the energy coming from you. So take these as important warnings to you to start changing what you are allowing in to your life.

This is why there can be instances where you have a reading and it sounds more like someone else’s who had issues going on, than you. this can certainly be frustrating, but it's important that you realise how vulnerable your energy field is. Whenever we get sick, have a headache, feel rundown, etc. our energy field opens up what is referred to as pockets, and it's these pockets, that can be filled with other people's problems that in turn eventually can play out in our own life one way or another. Sometimes the problems of other people that we listen to, can cause us to feel miserable for no reason at all, can you make you feel sick, nauseous or just lethargic.

You may think listening to your friend complaining about her husband, not doing the lawn or taking out the rubbish or him pleasing her is just typical of her, and that's what you hear all the time.

But it has to stop, it's actually toxic!

So next time you meet that friend tell them as much as you love them you don't want to have your time with them spent listening to problems or complaining but to have a new conversation about positive things. you'll be amazed at how quickly the time together may be reduced. which just shows you how long you spend listening to someone complaining about their life that they're not willing to do anything about changing.

Remember: You are no one's emotional sink where they can just dump their problems!

But guess what? You’ve already got the effects of their problems working their grubby claws into your life, so if you do have a reading, and the reading sounds more like someone else’s than yours, take that as a warning that you are opening yourself up to other people’s problematic life, more than you realise.

This is why many people in areas of counseling, etc often require debriefing, as this can remove the impacts of having to listen to people complaining about their lives on a daily basis. The average person who isn’t qualified to do this just absorbs the problem until it becomes one of their own, and plays out in their life perhaps not in minute detail but can alter your life miserably.

You may be feeling bad for suggesting to people that they seek help elsewhere, but unless you are qualified to deal with these things we recommend leaving it to the experts to deal with someone who is whinging.

So, it may be that that's all a friend may see you as, someone to whinge to if you don't nip it in the bud now. And if they do, that's not a true friend.

So, before you book a reading, make sure that you have not been listening to someone else's issues or drama, otherwise the chances of their life coming through in your reading is very likely, so you may as well give them your booking instead.

𝓢𝓽𝓪𝔂 𝓼𝓪𝓯𝓮 & 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓮 𝓸𝓯 𝓸𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓻𝓼 𝓷𝓮𝓰𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓿𝓲𝓽𝔂

~𝓚𝓪𝓻𝓮𝓷🌹

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