I tell my clients this many times over.
No matter how good a medium may be, no one can guarantee you that you will have a loved one in spirit come through. This is why l will never offer mediumship only readings.
I have had cases where l could go a whole hour then boom someone comes through, or they can be around days before that reading takes place interrupting my other readings. Then once they have the one they’re there for get the reading you can’t shut them up. 😆
But then, there are those who desperately need to hear one last message, quote or personal connection with a loved one on the other side and it breaks my heart to say “I’m sorry, no one is here”. I will never be so cold as to tell a person someone is present if they aren’t just to satisfy them. It’s cruel and disgusting to think that some do! Shame on those who do! You are not helping that person.
Spirits know what is best for you, if they have come through it’s because they know you are strong enough to cope and can move forward. If they don’t they know what you need now and even if it’s not what you think is fair they know, your heart.
Over time spirit will let go to help you stand alone. It’s the way of the soul, we each have a journey to make and eventually will reconnect in spirit with our loved ones, the important thing is to not stop living, just because someone is no longer here doesn’t mean they still can’t walk with you in spirit. But like a parent who lets go of your bicycle seat, they know the only way you can become stronger is for them to let you go.